There are times when I have thought about something and felt strongly about it...but ended up not speaking about it...and certainly not pennin it...but in times like now...when each thought is special and worth remembering...it was important for my well being...to pen down my thoughts...for myself...may be it will help me evolve in smway!
for days now I have been thinking of writing on what is the meanin of the sense of "touch"...and how strongly it conveys feelings inner to your soul...how the sense of touch makes you blossom into a new person and how the sense of touch...can turn your worst dreams into reality...
to start with...a touch of a friend...be it a man or a woman is so different from the touch of any other human being...it speaks volumes without evoking any gender based feelings...it translates feelins so beautifully that smtimes words look imposing and very worthless b/w friends...
...a gentle pat on the shoulder ..an unexpected hug...small gestures but definitely effective...but smtimes...sm of these touches can b intimidating if they ur mind n soul r not welcoming them...not everyone who u befriend have access to ur soul...and therefore his/her touch can only be at a physical level...again smthg worth notin is that it might be in a physical nature yet can be purely spiritual :)
in today's times...we define relationships in a very vague manner...a man n a woman has to be in a relationship to gain accepability...two men or women cannot be in friends unless they individually have proven their sexuality to the world at large...the world who still have smthg to say in any case! in times like these...when two woman hug each other in a public place...and I am talking about a hug...which lasts for more than a min...smtimes evolving into a smiles n laughters and wispering random thoughts into each other's ears...what does the society define this as? or when i decide to share the same space/room/bed/time with a friend who fortunately is a female? and not male :) frankly does it matter...to me...nope! to others...always!!!
or when a man who u trust decides to hug u...even if he is your friend's best man or his brother...or gently twist ur knees to give you the right posture during your yoga session...again a sense of touch...different from a friend's touch...a man's touch...yet doesnt evoke any feeling beyond the touch...complex...yet so simple...!
the touch is a beautiful feeling..it translates fears...passion...love...trust...rebuff...resignation...desperation...hatred...everything to anything...to nothin! it is the connection that matters..the inner connect...it is what it deciphers the feelings..and says much more than one wants too!
